I can’t overcome my jealousy of a porn star
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I can understand how you feel, even though I don’t suffer from what is amounting to obsession in you.
I’m assuming that you are female. I say that because it’s possible that a male can feel envious of a sexy, attractive woman.
There’s an old saying that men look at women while women look at both. Women often compare themselves to other women. I do. I have small breasts and I am envious of women with even average sized breasts.
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No shame in getting the right help. AND support to unlock that box and learn how to deal with it in a more positive way. I hope you seriously consider reaching out to a local professional.
Speaking of being ‘crushed’ on social media.
That too is understandable up to cheap jordans on sale a limit. I’m on Facebook a lot, and see countless brain dead cretins with huge followings on matters political and philosophical, and it burns me up. But only for about 3 seconds!
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This one is a weird one, but what it really amounts cheap air jordan too is just a plain celebrity crush. You need to get to therapy for this obsession, I don’t think you can break it on your own. If you want to try then you need to cut your connections with this person. Unfollow, delete links, delete from twitter, etc.
The thing you need to realize that no one is perfect. Even those you think could cheap jordans shoes be, have a laundry list of imperfections that they know about and everyone else does. More so with a porn star. Saggy boobs, fake boobs, dimples/cellulite, big teeth, bad hair, no enough hair/no hair down there, and the list goes on. They’re an ordinary person like you, their profession and celebrity, which what you’re obsessing on, is what seems to set things apart. You’re putting her on a pedestal so high that you can’t even seen anything other then your perfected image of them.
I don’t think that she’s the REAL issue here. What I see a lot of is low self esteem and low self image stuff. This is poisonous to you and will lead you down a path of sadness. This is what you REALLY need help with. Accepting yourself for yourself and loving you for being you. Until you do that. you’re going to be in trouble. Get help.
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